Gay Cumbria - Support
Here we have provided some support information and articles, we hope you find them useful. Please note that all experiences differ and each situation should be tackled on its own merit, our support articles are for guidance only.
Please follow the links below.
Coming Out | Cottaging/Cruising | Domestic Abuse | Drink Spiking/Date Rape
Homophobia | FFLAG - (Family & Friends of Lesbians & Gays) | In the Closet
Relationship Break Up | Personal Safety Tips
Domestic Abuse
I met a fab person today, I’ve only met them once but I can’t stop thinking about them.
I know we’ve only been together for a short while, but I think this is the one. I would do anything for them. I cant stand it when we’re apart so I asked them to move in. This feels so right.
Life just can’t get any better, we do almost everything together, and when we’re apart it hurts. Love is a wonderful thing.
We had our first lovers tiff last night. I know I cried but they apologised so everything’s fine. I wish I could pull myself together. I behave so wet at times.
I love the way we can get through the arguments, I feel that were a real couple. I must forgive their hang ups, god knows I’m not perfect either. I only hope I can be a better person, I didn’t realise until a met them just how wrong I was in so many things. I’m glad I have them to advise me, the only thing is I’m beginning to think that I know nothing. How on earth did I survive before them? Now I can see where I went wrong with other relationships. I’m so happy.
We had a big argument last night, it was my fault, I just couldn’t let it go could I? well they’ve apologised and bought me a present to say sorry. I want to buy them a bigger one because it was all my fault in the first place, only thing is, I’ve maxed the credit cards with their birthday present last month. How am I going to afford it? That’ll be another argument I’ll cause when they find out. Well at least the black eye won’t be around forever, will it?
I deserved that, I’m useless at the minute, I feel pathetic and can’t do anything right. I’m so grateful that they put up with me. Who else would want me? Id invite my friends round, but they’ll only say that my partners no good for me and attempt to split us up. What gives them the right to do that to us? some friends eh? I haven’t seen my mother in a while.
It was only a one night stand, I’m no good in bed and that’s probably why they strayed, but they’ve apologised and I’ve forgiven them. I really want to make this work, after all too many people give up at the first hurdle and I don’t want us to be like that.
The doctor says the damage will be permanent, at first they didn't want me anymore................. but they wouldn't stop texting me, trying to get us back together, but who else would want me and I hate us being apart. I’m in love you see?
